We are those saviors

Elder Theodore M Burton has said: "The promise was made them, our ancestors, that even if they were born at a time and place where they could not hear the gospel preached in life, God would provide saviors for them from among their descendants so they could eventually receive all the blessings promised them. We are those saviors." In our church, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, we believe that we will all be together again in the next estate (when we leave this earth). How wonderful it will be to get to the other side and see the people who belong to the names in our family tree. How wonderful it will be to look them in the eye and know something about them because of the work I am doing during my lifetime, researching their past, learning all I can about who they were and what they did and what it was like when they were alive, what the ship looked like that carried them to the United States, how if they did not have the courage to leave Poland or Scotland and settle here, I would be living a very different life right now. I am grateful to my ancestors for the courage they had in living their lives the way they did, even when their families disapproved and cut them off wanting nothing more to do with them, because now I have the freedom to live my life the way I choose and open up paths for future generations. I am grateful I have the opportunity to leave a legacy of faith for my descendants to follow.

Following the Example of Jesus Christ

Today I am blessed to be able to teach Jennifer's Sunday School class. The lesson is on following the example of Jesus Christ. He is the perfect example of how we should strive to live our lives. It is a nice reminder to try to be more like Him. The Savior said "What manner of men ought ye to be?" then answered "Verily I say unto you, even as I am" and that got me thinking, are there things in my life that I could change? I decided to start making a list of things I needed to change and then I realized that the list of things to keep the same would be much much shorter! I have taken the challenge that I am going to give the girls today, Live for 24 hours as if Christ were right beside you seeing everything that you do. In the lesson a girl begins with the way she set the table, instead of a wrinkled tablecloth with stains on it she put out a clean one and even picked flowers from her yard to put in the middle of the table, even tho it was just her family eating dinner, she stated "I don't know of anyone I'd rather fix things up for than our own folks". Why do we only bring out the good china when company comes and even then it is not all company that gets to use it? Why do we treat others better than our own family? We do not have to use it everyday but why not every Sunday or any other day of the week we choose? I will let you know how my 24 walk with Christ goes.

Stake Challenge

Our Stake has challenged us to read the Book of Mormon before the next Stake Conference in June - Conference to Conference. Jack and I have taken that challenge and we are reading after the girls leave for Seminary and before we leave for work. So far, so good. We are on schedule (ok, we just got the challenge three days ago but we are off to a good start!)This time I am taking a different approach when I am reading because I am looking at this as my family history. Sure they are distant cousins but at some point our lines meet. I am reading a history lesson on my heritage so I am reading with that thought in mind and want to know what story Cousin Mormon is going to tell me next. Try it out, it is a really cool way to look at everything.
You can do the same thing with the Old and New Testaments. Read the Bible as if it were an older relative telling you stories about your family.

Finding Joy in the Journey

Conference Oct 2008, President Monson gave a talk entitled "Finding Joy in the Journey" and we are going to be discussing it in Relief Society today for our lesson so I decided to reread it this morning so that I would have everything clear in my mind and could take part in the discussion. I loved this talk when he gave it, and I loved it again when the Ensign came out and I love it again now. I have printed off a copy of it and will keep it with my scriptures so that I can refer to it often. When I read it I think about how often I dream of tomorrows that never come. I worry about when will I have time to do things with the kids like I use to and not be tired every evening when I get home from work. I think about the yesterdays when the kids and I would spend all our time together, going to support each other and being involved in each others lives. I often regret living here, being so far away from friends and family and knowing that Jennifer will be moving out to Utah in the summer to live with Jeremy and Jack will be on his mission and it will be just Joy and myself home. Time flies by so quickly. Some things in life seemed so large at the time and took alot of effort but they were just fleeting moments and now they are gone and other things have taken their place. I do try to enjoy the here and now and I cherish the moments we are all together. I am very thankful to Heavenly Father for all that He does for my family. In the last week and a half we were able to travel to Missouri and see most of my family, then back to Arkansas to spend time with Robert's family and all the kids were together, laughing and having fun and fighting at times, just like they use to. Robert has been home for two weeks now, enjoying all the time together with everyone. It is a sobering thing to read the words of President Monson when he says "Brothers and sisters, my sincere prayer is that we may adapt to the changes in our lives, that we may realize what is most important, that we may express our gratitude always and thus find joy in the journey..." I have taken inventory of the things I have and the things I can not change and the things I have to look forward to on the other side. I am very grateful for the true gospel in my life. I am very grateful that Elder Ballard sent missionaries to our home to help us find the truth that this church teaches us. I am grateful to know that someday my family will be together forever with true love for each other and time to spend together. I am very grateful that Jack is home for this semester before he leaves on his mission, so we can spend time together, working and playing and having a priesthood holder in the home again. Jack is such a good example to the girls and myself, he is going to be an awesome missionary and who knows, maybe he will be a good example to Robert and our family will be able to be sealed together in this lifetime! I am going to try harder to find the joy in the journey and life each day to the fullest. I will enjoy the last few games the girls have in basketball knowing it is Jennifer's last because of graduating this year and because we do not know where Joy will go to school next year and if she will be on any sports teams. I am going to enjoy having Jack and Jennifer both work in the same office as me even if we do not see each other much during the day. I am going to enjoy using the webcam and seeing Bailey grow up and be thankful we have this technology to use. I am thankful that both of the kids work at places that will allow them to be off on Sundays and also Wednesday nights so they can attend church activities. I am thankful that we have jobs and cars and a home to live in. I am thankful we have clothes to wear and friends to visit with, even if only in emails and blogs. I am grateful to have the gospel in my life and to know that my Savior lives and that He loves me enough to die for me. I am grateful to know that one day I will return to my Heavenly Father and that just maybe, He will say to me "well done thy good and faithful servant" or it might just be "well thanks for trying" but either way, I WILL return to him. I love you all.

Jack's Special Day

Sunday Dec 21, 2008 Jeremy was able to bestow the priesthood on Jack. It was quite a day. We arrived home just after 2:30 AM and unpacked the van and then off to bed. Bailey slept in until 7 AM so I was able to get a bit of sleep. It has been a long time since 8 people needed showers/baths before church and the timing had to be worked out but we all made it. Jack and Jennifer left early to meet A.J. and Jacob at the church. They drove in from Russelville so they could celebrate with Jack. Robert went to church with us and we took up one and a half pews. They had asked me to say the opening prayer and Jeremy to do the closing prayer in Sacrament. I was so proud of Jack when they asked him to stand and we all were able to raise our hand and sustain him in his new responsibilities. It was a nice service and I was able to hold Bailey part of the time. Then afterwards we met in the Bishop's office and talked for a few minutes and then Jack sat down in a chair and those who already have the Priesthood gathered around him and placed one hand on his head and the other on the shoulder of the man next to him. Then Jeremy said a prayer and blessed Jack with the ability to use his priesthood to help those in need. He prayed that Jack would be able to seek out those who would need him in the future and to be strong in his faith. He blessed him to be a bright shining light to those he meets and to bring joy to many people. He blessed him to be in the right place at the right time and to continue to learn the scriptures so he can help others. It was an amazing blessing and then Jack got up and hugged all the men in the room and also ME. He was going to hug all the girls when he got into the hall but I do not know if he did or not. After that we all went to our house and Jack was able to spend some time with his friends before they drove back to Russelville and then on to somewhere south of Fayetteville. I am so very grateful that both of my sons live worthy to have the priesthood and that they take their responsibility seriously. Jack will now be able to help give people blessings. He will start attending the Elders meetings and prepare his papers to submit for his mission. He is hoping to have everything ready for mid march when he is able to submit them. We are all very proud of him and I am very grateful the whole family was there to witness it.

Blessings For Christmas

Heavenly Father knows what we need and blesses us when we do what we are suppose to do. We have ice today and our office is closed. I was all dressed and ready to leave when I got the call but I thank my Heavenly Father because I really did need today to get ready for our trip and get the house ready for company. We leave tomorrow at noon and arrive home Sunday morning sometime. We will go to church and then Sunday evening the Linda Deaton family will have Christmas at our house. Then on Monday we have an open house for people to come over and see Jeremy and Lora and Bailey. We also are getting our family pictures taken on Monday so it will be a busy time with lots of company here. The girls are trying to get their schoolwork finished up and Jack has to sort out his room and find a place for all his college stuff, it will be a busy day! Why am I posting all this in my church journal instead of my regular one? I believe that Heavenly Father is blessing us today. We have the ice today instead of our traveling day tomorrow. We have the ice today so I can stay home and work. We have the ice today so I can spend some time with Robert and the kids and we can enjoy being a family. We are truly blessed! I can spend more time in the scriptures today getting ready for this wonderful season instead of being rushed to get everything done. We are so blessed. I love you all and Merry Christmas to you all, keep Christ as your center and all will go well.

December Thoughts

December is my favorite time of year, I can talk freely about our Savior and people listen! I am able to talk about His birth and it does not offend anyone. I can play Christmas songs on the TV in the waiting room and no one complains that I am playing religious music. The Spirit of Christmas is what I love. People are in the mood to help others out. They freely give of their time and talents and money to help those less fortunate. They smile more and open doors for strangers and don't complain as much when standing in line to check out and they expect traffic and plan for it. If only more people carried the Spirit of Christmas all year long, what a wonderful thing that would be! As my kids are getting older they look forward to Christmas in different ways than when they were young. I remember the excitement of decorating the tree and talking about each ornament they hung and sitting in the dark room at night just watching the lights. This year I did the tree all alone, no laughter, no stories. I watch the lights by myself at night and remember all the fun of Christmas past and look forward to the day when my grandchildren will help me put up the tree and make new memories. Our children grow up too fast and are out on their own before you know it. Make the most of the time you have with them. I think about Dana who has one married and many more all the way down to just starting elementary school. She can see all the stages at once and is enjoying being there for all the kids. I think missing Mike coming around makes her enjoy Carson all the more. We can learn from our kids and that will make us better grandparents. I am glad for this time of year, I love to smile.

Lesson 44 Suggestion for Family Discussion

Today during Sunday School I noticed the Family Discussion Suggestion so I decided to give it a try. We are to read Mormon 8:34-35 and then write a letter to future family members "as if those family members were present".
I feel your presence in my heart and I have great love for you. I have prayed for you and the strength you will need to fight the good fight and to stand strong in your convictions. I want you to live so that those who do not know Christ will want to know Him because of the way you live your life. Ponder the atonement of Christ and hold the lessons deep in your heart. Learn the words from the scriptures and recite them over and over in your minds to give you strength. Keep your minds and heart clean and you will be a great help in the battle here in this estate. Remember. Remember the words of those who went before you and the sacrifices they made for you. Do all that you can to not sin, but when you do - Repent and be made spotless once again. There is a season for all things to come and you must be ready for that time and not be caught unprepared. Christ lives. The Book of Mormon is real. Read it, ponder it, learn from it, let it guide your steps. Say your prayers in your closet, say your prayers with your families and say your prayers with your peers. Don't be ashamed to pray in public, over your food or over the sick or in front of other church members. Don't let pride take over and consume yourself with costly clothes or houses or cars or things in general. Don't get into debt. Store enough food to feed your family and those who you will take in during the difficult times. I know that your heart will not allow you to let others suffer while you have food and shelter you can share. Be prepared. Remember that Christ is your anchor and you can do all things through Him!
I write this for my children and my grandchildren and all those who come after me but I also write this for anyone who reads it and believes in Christ. I love you all. Amen

Letter to my kids

To my wonderful children,
During church today it was said that if we knew we were about to die what would we want our children to know? I decided I would write to you so that you would know how much I love you. The greatest desire of my heart is for us to be together for eternity. I want you to be able to stand strong in your faith and to return to Heavenly Father with honor. I want you to know that I believe with all my heart that this is the true church. I know that Heavenly Father lives and loves each one of us. I know that Jesus Christ suffered and died for us but even more than that, I know that he lives. I know that he volunteered to come here and die for us so that we would have the right to choose for ourselves. I know that he was born in a lowly manger and rose to great heights on that cross, and he did it all for us, for you and for me. I know that he lives and that he is there for you. I know that if you go to Heavenly Father in prayer he will answer your prayers, not always in the way you want, but in the way you need. We go through trials here so that we can become stronger. We learn to go to Heavenly Father during those trials and to seek His wisdom to make it through them. We learn to become closer to Him and to be more like Him by our choices we make and the paths we follow. I pray that you will learn to hear His voice and follow it all the days of your life. I pray that you will have the courage to stand up for what you believe in and share the gospel with others. I pray that I will have the wisdom to teach you the things you need to know so that you can become mighty warriors in our battle here in this estate. I pray we can all be sealed together someday soon. I pray for each one of your spouses that they will be a great help in your journey back to Heavenly Father and that they will treat you as the sons and daughters of God that you are. I pray for your children and the wisdom you will need to raise them in these troubled times. I pray they will fight the good fight and in the end remain standing strong. I love you more than words can describe. I love you so much that it hurts when I have to watch you make mistakes and I wish I could go through your pain for you but I also love you enough to let you make your mistakes and grow from them. I don't want you to ever doubt how much I love you or how much I love my Savior and my Heavenly Father. I say these things in the name of Jesus Christ, my Lord and Savior. Amen

Lessons I have Learned - Prayer for Others

Last Sunday in church one of the speakers talked about praying everyday for 20 minutes straight and how it changed his life. I decided to take that challenge and get up at 5:00 am so I could fit it in along with my own prayers and the family prayers. I not only pray for 20 minutes but record in my prayer journal who and what I prayed for and then I want to be able to go to that journal when I am down and read about the things and hopefully I will be able to see how God works in our lives. I started off the first day and went about 45 minutes trying to get everything in. I was very thankful and then prayed for everyone I could. I have continued each day since then and I find it very rewarding to take time to pray for others and I am excited to be able to go back later and record how their lives have changed. I find my love growing for each person I pray for, even those I do not know their names. I may never hear how number 25 on the flames basketball team gets healed but I feel a comfort when I pray for her so I know she will be fine. I have spent much more than 20 minutes a day each time and I feel better all day long. My own prayers are getting shorter, lesson learned - less time on myself and more on others!!

Take the Time

I find that I lose all track of time when I am researching information on my ancestors. I love to read about the places they lived and try to pictures what their lives might have been like. I have started taking notes on what the town was like close to the time my Mother's family lived in the different places in Scotland and have added those notes to my PAF file. It is fun to read about what the houses were like and how the town grew. I will do this for all the rest of the sides also but I am still on my Mom's side right now.
I love the scriptures that talk about turning the hearts of the fathers to the children and vice versa. I really do feel like I love them more and more each time I find out more information about them. We need to learn as much as we can while we are here on this earth and I have decided that reading more about where my ancestors came from is a clue as to who they were and is an important thing to do. I have heard so many people say they do not have time for genealogy. I have decided to give up 30 minutes a day to make the time to find out something new. It might be 30 minutes of sleep I am giving up but most of the time it is 30 minutes of wasted time that I will not miss. I have to plan my time more effectively to get this done but if we all did that then we would be more ready for Christ to return. You have to take the time.

Heavenly Father speaks to us

This week I have been reminded that Heavenly Father speaks to us through others. Sometimes, no matter how much we pray and study our scriptures we still need to talk to others and get feedback and discuss things. I still have questions that I struggle with and most people just don't talk about things they don't know the answers to. I spent a good deal of time this past week talking about my questions and my fears and being thankful. I have learned much because of a very special boy and am grateful to have been blessed by his family. It is true that our lives are examples to others and someone is always watching and learning from our actions.
I also love the missionaries. All of them. They take the time and talk to you without looking down on you or judging you. I have been in the church for 12 years and still talk to the missionaries because they are so in tune with the Spirit and they compliment each other by jumping in and taking over when impressed to do so. Feeding the missionaries is a selfish act I think. We always have them give us a lesson after dinner before we take them back. It is wonderful to be reminded of the things that are truly important and to watch what they give up to be out here. I love you all, remember the important things in this life is what we will be taking with us and it is easier to learn lessons and grow here.

Slack in my studies

This week I have been slack in my studies and my prayers have been lacking the time I should be giving. I have repented and I WILL do better this next week. I have learned a few things. I truly feel better mentally when I give the correct time to my prayers and scripture reading. I am in a better mood. I treat people better. I am more cheerful. So why would I not take the proper time everyday and do what I have been asked by my Father in Heaven to do? Why do kids disobey? I think that sometimes we are lazy and sometimes we think we don't need to do it. I have watched my kids as they struggle with growing up and wanting to be the adult but not quite there yet. They want the best of both worlds, the playing and the grown up attitude all at once. I then look at myself and see the same thing. I want to make my own decisions and slack off on things I know I should be doing by playing around but I know that it is wrong. I need to be a better example to my children. People watch us and judge us by our actions and I need to be more like my Savior and always see the good in people and be there when I am needed. I can only be there when needed if I have done my scripture reading and studying and can talk about the things I am learning and be that example to others. It is a choice and I choose to live my life with all glory going to my Heavenly Father.

Things Happen for a reason

Things happen for a reason and we do not always know what that reason is. Sometimes I wonder why so much happens to us, things we can do without. I watch to see God’s hand in our lives and try to focus on that instead of the negative. When the deer jumped onto the hood of the car I was very grateful that the girls had already slammed on their breaks, seeing the deer ahead of time. I have no doubt that the deer would have smashed through the windshield and hurt both girls in the process but because there was divine intervention they were both uninjured and the car only has an indention the size of a baseball. It could have been much worse.
I wonder why we are struggling with the ability to get school work done and keeping a computer working. With the girls homeschooling and doing their work on the computer they must be connected to the Internet and with Jennifer’s computer still in the shop it is a struggle to get both girls on one computer. I am sure there is a lesson in here somewhere but right now I am not seeing it. I know these struggles sound small compared to others but we each have things that test us in this life and we are judged as to how we handle them and what we can learn from them in order to help others. I loved our lesson in Relief Society this past week when we were talking about the Light of Christ. It was such a special day and I went home and studied more about how we are special because we choose to be. We choose to go to church and we choose to do our callings to the best of our ability. We choose to believe what we do. We choose to be happy and get up out of bed each day with the promise that if we will do our part then Heavenly Father will do His. …Choose you this day whom you will serve; … but for me and my house we will serve the Lord… Joshua 24:15

Prayers with the Kids

We have morning prayers together in the mornings before the girls go to Seminary. We use to do scripture reading at this time also but it became a battle to get them up at 5:00am so they could get ready for the day and then have scriptures before they left home at 6:00am to get to Seminary. I gave up the battle and settled for Prayers together and then they get scriptures when they get to Seminary. I really enjoy the prayers. It is nice to watch the girls prayers change over the years. They are getting stronger and more thoughtful. They pray for all our family members not here and our extended family as well. They pray for each other. I bear my testimony that prayer brings people closer together. I see it in what they say and how they say it.
Prayer is an important part of our relationship with Heavenly Father. It is our way to talk to Him and receive answers back from Him. It is our way of expressing our feelings and concerns. Don't rush through your prayers, take the time to listen to what your family members are praying about and then in your private prayers, remember those things and join your prayers with your children, or spouse. Maybe they are praying for a test or for a game or for a friend and their needs and maybe they are just expressing their Love. Far too often we join in the prayer at the moment and then don't mention it again but if the things are important enough to our children to mention then they deserve our time and attention as well. It will bring you closer to your family to pray for them and it will bring you closer to your Heavenly Father just by praying.

Ecclesiastes

I was reading in Ecclesiastes a few days ago and there was something that touched my heart but I was running late for work so I did not write it down. Then I could not remember what it was. Tonight it jumped out at me again and so I am posting two times tonight, sorry but I don't want to forget again!
Chapter 3: To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under heaven.
How many times have you read this or hear this or watched Foot Loose and heard him quote it? I have hundreds of times, it was one of my favorite things growing up, seeing how many things I could remember it talking about. I never had the passage hit me so hard as it did the other day and then again tonight. There is a time, here on earth, for everything and we must embrace the stage we are at in our lives and make the most of it. We are suppose to do something right now, right in this part of our lives. Find out what that is and just do it. President Monson said "This is your time. What will you do with it? Are you where you want to be with your life? If not, what are you going to do about it?" (Three Gates to Open 14 Jan 2001)
I need to be grateful for the season I am in and the place I am at. I need to be thankful for the time I have with the kids who are still around. I need to make the most of everyday and not get drug down with the worries but find the joy in things to keep me built up. I need to surround myself with happy people and when around negative people, take the opportunity to bring a bit of joy to their lives and not let their outlook bring me down.
I am where I ought to be so I need to say the things I ought to say, when I ought to say them. This has always been hard for me, I have spoken my mind throughout my life and sometimes I should have kept quiet and waited for the proper moment to say what I had to say. I probably would have done it more tactfully. Sometimes I have hurt peoples feeling with my opinions and I am truly sorry for that, please forgive me. I have passed up the opportunity to say things when I should have been more outspoken and for that I am truly sorry. I look back on my life and regret not telling more people about the gospel. I regret not telling people more often that I love them (I love you all!!) and I regret not talking to my Father in Heaven as often as I could have. But this is my time now and I need to take the time to do what I ought to do. My problem is that right now, I don't know what that is. So back to the scriptures I go . . .

Liken the Ensign

I love reading the Ensign, I try to read the articles and see how I can apply them to my life. I try to put myself in the story and liken it unto me. I love the article about the Lord enabling imperfect people to work beyond their natural abilities. I think I spend too much time focusing on all my faults and worrying that I can not do things. I have to tell myself that God can use me even with all my imperfections. Moroni 10:32 helps me to remember that I have to forget about myself and focus on doing the work I was sent here to do and I can only do that with the help of my Heavenly Father.

I loved the article reminding us to inquire of the Lord. We spend too much time asking others what we should do or telling our friends how we feel and we sometimes forget to talk to our Father. We need to remember to go to Him in our joys and in our sorrows. We need to tell Him our secrets and our fears. We need to pray without ceasing. We need to thank Him more often and let Him know how much we love him.

Prayer and Scripture reading is what is going to help us protect our families. We need to take the things we learn and use them in our lives. We need that to help us hold on to our beliefs. This is a trying time and we must remember who we are and where we came from but even more than that, we must do what we need to do so we, as a family, can return with honor to our Father in Heaven.

All Good Blessings Come From God

How can we show Heavenly Father our gratitude for all that He has done for us? That is my focus right now, concentrating on the good blessings in my life. I have to stop thinking about what I USE to have and what I WISH I had and focus on the here and now and all the blessings in my life. Heavenly Father is so good to me. I have a wonderful family and we have food to eat and a home to live in. We have cars to drive and work to drive them to. All of my children are able to go to school and they all attend church and church activities. We are free to practice our faith without fear. We have a good church family who cares about us and prays for us, whether they live here in Arkansas or back in Utah, the prayers go to the same place. We have cell phones so that we can keep in touch with each other any time we want or need to. We have a web camera so that we can watch Bailey grow up even tho she is hundreds of miles away. We have two dogs who alert us when people come around, even if it is at 11:00pm.
So how can I show Heavenly Father my gratitude for all that He has given me? I can joyfully go to Him in prayer and thank Him. I can read my scriptures to learn more about Him and how I should be living my life. I can attend Conference on the Internet and at the meeting house and rejoice in the things I hear there. I can attend my meetings on Sunday and I can read my lessons ahead of time to be able to take part in the lessons. I can focus on learning everything there is to know about the new Family Search so that I will be an asset to my ward. I can be available to help others when it is convenient for them even if it is not convenient for me. I can really, really try to do my visiting teaching and not find excuses about the gas money and the time it takes to drive that far. But most of all, I can focus on teaching my family how good God is to us and the struggles we are going through is just to make us a stronger vessel for Heavenly Father to use. I love you Father!

My New Calling

Oh My GOSH!!!! I am soooo excited! Joy and I were late getting to church even though we left 45 minutes before it started! We had to stop in and see Linda who is sick. Anyhow, Jennifer was saving us a seat and we walked in with about one minute until they should have started and Bishop motioned for me to go into the hall. He said he was sorry to do this with short notice but they had a calling for me. He told me and I was so excited, I have been called to be one of the family history counselors!!!! I am so excited, I spent all afternoon and evening yesterday on the site and I love it and I didn't even know I was getting the calling!
I am so blessed to be called into something that I love doing. They are going to start Sunday school classes and they even have a plan to get everyone to find an ancestor to take to the temple. They don't know that I have been through all that before - YES - I finally don't feel totally stupid when I have been called to something. I learned so much the first time I had this calling back in Utah and now I can put that experience to work here. I'm so excited, that I just can't hide it (are you singing along?). Anyhow, I know that we were sent here for a reason and this is one of them, the kids and I all can help. We LOVE getting to know peoples ancestors. I will keep you posted.

Please Comment

Please post comments about what you think when you read my blog. If you have insite to what I am feeling or learning, share it. If you are reminded of something in your own life because of what you read here, please share it. We all learn from each other. Share your wisdom with me and I can learn from your journey and make mine a more pleasant experience. I am sure you have Spiritual wisdom for me and also guidance as I try to raise my children and then let them go with the hope I trained them up in the right way. Maybe others can learn from your comments as well, we are here to help each other!